Calling all hoooommmooo'ssss!

I have an idea.

Let's all join the military! Then we can get discharged and feel like we're socially unacceptable! Yay...

It pisses me off that they discharge open gay people. They say it makes the straight people uncomfortable because of the showering together and sleeping together and what not. But I say, "Fuck you and your homophobia." Calm your ass down for a second and think about it....realize that you're really not that attractive and that not everyone who's gay wants to take a peek at you while you clean your nasty ass. Ugh! People are so ignorant. I think that it goes against everything that this country stands for...or was meant to stand for. This country was created so that people could be however the hell they wanted and not get punished for it...Well maybe not exactly, but wasn't that the point they were making? I personally would never join the military, i'd rather not support George Bush's killing spree over there, thanks though. But what if I did? I'm not going to keep quiet about my sexuality because some arrogant asshole is worried about whether i'm checking her out or not. Blah. I'm moving to Europe.

-Em

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-Em

A Stud/Fem's Role?

I have heard quite a few people's opinions on this subject. I agree with most that it is hypocritical to stick a certain "duty" on the fem or stud of the relationship. Most of the time the stud is expected to have the supportive, dominant role in the relationship, while the fem is assumed to be the emotional, needful one. I think that treating your relationship in that way is taking away from the beauty of what being in a gay relationship is about. It's about two females being committed to each other. Automatically assuming that since a stud "dresses like a dude", that she has to assume the male role in the relationship completely goes against what the couple as lesbians stand for. Regardless of the way a female looks, or dresses, she is still a female. I personally am dominant and I don't express my emotions like people would assume I would, and I am a "fem". Naturally I carry that "role" in most of my relationships, whether I am dating a fem or a stud. My point: stud, or fem...you are both females. Fem's, if you're looking for a dominant, supportive girlfriend...don't automatically assume that a stud is what you are looking for. I have learned that it isn't about studs or fems. It's about females. So look for the qualities you want in a girl, regardless of their label (we'll talk about those later), not for the stereotypical stud or fem.

- Em

A Letter to my family. [what i wish i could say]

Dear Family,

Yes, you are all very dear to me. We obviously disagree on many issues. We can't compromise half of the time, and we pick at each other's nerves. But we are family. We should have such strong relationships with each other that absolutely nothing can change them the slightest bit. But I know that there are certain conditions under which some of you will love me. I know that quite a few of you have love for me that is far from unconditional. I know that I hurt you all, often. But I don't mean to, and at the end of the day I'm willing to mend things. But when I'm not listened to, and I'm so misunderstood by all of you it makes it so hard to get my point across that we end up arguing and we never get anything resolved. What really kills me is that you don't even know me. You can't know me. If you truly knew me, knew the things I've been through and my lifestyles you wouldn't even want to be part of my life. I really wish I could just look you all in the eye and tell you that yes, I am a lesbian, yes, I have done drugs, no, i am not a virgin, yes, i smoke cigarettes and drink alcohol. But you are so wrapped up in what YOU believe is right and what YOU think is morally and socially acceptable that you would be willing to cut me out completely just to make yourself feel better. I feel so emotionally unconsidered. Yes you provide me with meals and a roof over my head, but where is my emotional support? When can I ever go to you and say "this is my problem, this is how I feel, this is who I am"? I can't. And if I could maybe we could be a family again. But until you decide to return to me the same consideration I have for you all, we aren't a true family. We don't have that unconditional love that a family needs. If reading this letter would make things better, I would print it, put it in an envelope and put it in the mail but it won't, and I can't. I love you unconditionally...


With Love,
Your Daughter/Granddaughter/Niece, etc.

My [em]inent intro

I'd like to introduce myself as briefly and vaguely as possible...To you, I'm "Em". I'm a 17 year old, homosexual female, and I live on the eastern coast of the U.S.

I think that's enough. =]

Now, the purpose of this blog is simply a place for me to express my opinions, discuss things that bother me, and things that are going on in my life and around the world. I appreciate comments, positive, or negative they all help me to better my blog. So please don't hesitate to state your opinion on anything I say.

also, for those of you who do not know the definition of "eminent" :

eminent: (ěm'ə-nənt) adj.

1. Of high rank, station, or quality; noteworthy: eminent members of the community.
2. Outstanding, as in character or performance; distinguished: an eminent historian.
3. Towering or standing out above others; prominent: an eminent peak.


I guess that's about it. Check back often for more =]

-Em